My definition of best friend:
In my point of view, best friend will NEVER
1) declare that they are best friend. Its either people will talk about it or our action justifies it.
2) feel JEALOUS if the other best friend is better or well off than the other. They will be truely genuinely happy for their friends instead of just saying happy wishes at front tp kat belakang tak puas hati kutuk and then start questioning why Allah SWT gave her an easy access for everything and I have to go through hell to get something I want.
3) lies for 8 years being friends and hides the truth of what was actually going on but telling everybody else about it until the supposedly 'best friend' knows last about it.
4) have to worry that the other best friend is out to get the other partner's regardless whatever history they have. this is bull****!
5) think that the 'best friend' is always talking bad behind their back and feels that the 'best friend' is recruiting gang to 'pulaukan' you.
6) drag other people into their mess and starts to feel suspiscious at everyone whom is close or nice with the so called 'best friend' and then start thinking those nice and close people are out the get you too.
7) act like psycho and 'bersalah' when there is no cause at all to feel that way
8) be a hypocrite acting like there's nothing wrong when asked but actually dah berbakul perasaan disimpan
9) feel like they have to compete with each other. FOR THE LOVE OF ALLAH SWT, why would you want compete until even silly things?????
10) block or ignore people in social medias or IMs
11) feel like the other one has to be superior from the other
12) do these things mention above because even it happens, if they are truly friends, IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN!
Adoiyaii!! Kalau layan bendalah nie kan, diri sendiri pun makin lama mcm jadi budak2 balik. Pleaselah. I cant believe that people can put other people in these kind of situation when they've grown up but ternyata, sangkaan aku meleset. Ya allah! Aku hanya mampu mendoakan terangilah hati kami. Sucikan la jiwanya kami, bersihkan diri kami ini dari sebarang pembuatan syaitan yang direjam supaya kami boleh hidup aman dan damai dan bebas dari melakukan sebarang dosa. Amin ya rabbal alamin.
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Farah Ramlee